On November
4, 2008 I sat in a pub in Durham, U.K. with a bunch of other U.S. students
watching the election results come in with anticipation. However, unlike most
of those other students, my attention wasn’t really focused on whether Obama
would be elected or not. I kept waiting to hear about the results from the
three states that had ballot measures banning same-sex marriage. I was
particularly anxious about my home state of California. Up until just a couple
weeks before the election I had been sure that the ban would be shot down. It’s
California, one of the most liberal states in the country. Yet as I sat in that
pub, refreshing a website with election data every 30 seconds, I was really
worried. The Yes on 8 Campaign had seemed to be so much more successful than I
had thought it would be.